During my decade-long career as a Human Resources professional, I witnessed firsthand how effective communication was often overlooked, not because of ignorance, but perhaps due to an intentional avoidance of its profound power. The true essence of communication goes beyond the technicalities – it is about genuine, open, compelling, and progressive exchange, and too often, this was left in the shadows.
All humans desire success, but true success lies in the ability to clearly communicate the vision. The world’s history-makers – John F. Kennedy, Martin Luther King, Nelson Mandela, Barack Obama, and countless others – illustrate this. These leaders didn’t just see a vision; they communicated it in ways that transcended their own lifetimes. Leadership rises and falls on communication. It is the cornerstone of influence.
Communication is more than what you say – it’s also about what you leave unsaid. It has the power to either empower or silence, uplift or diminish. Yet, many believe that open, honest dialogue is a sign of weakness or even a loss of control. As a result, they say very little, hold back a lot, or worse, say nothing at all. Others speak so much but communicate nothing of real substance. It brings to mind a quote I once came across: “If I don’t reply to your message, that is my answer.”
Imagine how often your audience, whether one person or many, is left guessing your intent, wondering what you really meant. As leaders, it’s essential to communicate in a way that builds allegiance and moves people. The same applies to every relationship we nurture, whether personal or professional. Is there real understanding in your communication?
I recently ran a survey, and the number one concern people shared was the “fear of being misunderstood.”
- What’s your biggest communication challenge?
- Do you frequently feel misunderstood?
- Are you always in conflict with people who you should be collaborating with?
- What do you want to achieve when you speak?
These questions aren’t meant to overwhelm but rather, they’re meant to guide you. And I’m here to help! If you’re ready to elevate your communication game, take The Compelling Communicator Course NOW and position yourself to get and stay ahead every time you show up.
Cheers,
StephREDD